breakin free

I was married to my husband eleven years ago. I never thought that I would marry that early since I was just eighteen then. We made vows to ourselves and lived a happy life. We were good friends during our college glorious days. We were block mates. On our second year college I got pregnant. I stopped studying but he continued till he graduated in the year 2002. He and his brothers in fraternity rented a house for them to review together for the board exams. He made it because he topped the boards to 12th place. It started all the problems we encountered. By that time our relationship is already on the rocks. After 3 years of marriage we decided to part ways since we were not that stable in terms of emotions, finances and in our career.

Me and my baby Ayel lived without a dad that would keep us safe, that would pamper all our tantrums whenever we like doing it. Good thing about Ayel's dad was that he was a good provider. Eventhough he was in the arms of another, he managed to give what is due for our kido. None the less, I could see that he loved our baby. Above all he sees to it that whenever he got back home from a vacation he would be with my daughter everyday of his stay in the Philippines.

Even before our baby went to her true Father in heaven, my ex hubby proposed a nullity of our marriage. I did not agree that time because I know it would be another pain for my baby. After a year I said yes, I am now ready to file the annulment to our marriage since my baby has gone. Please allow me to say to myself; I was broken into pieces to be free.

The aftermath of all the things that happened, he is now married with kids still living abroad. I am living on my own with my B boy on my tummy. I could probably say that I would only tie a knot with someone because me and my soon to be husband will be careless with the future for as long as we will have each other in between God at the end of the day and not because of anything else.

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